Methinks I have Either A Stalker Or A Secret Admirer?!

OK for months now I have been asking the ROD reader to disclose his or her identity......my Site Meter stats tell me who visits, how they found my website, where they are, what internet providor they are using, and disconcertingly how long they view the site for each time the visit.

Firstly....people I know, it doesn't bother me how long you peruse the site for. For example I can be reading a blog, think of something, open up another window, and sit hovvering on someone's blog for ages. Holli, I'm sure you will agree with me on that. I'm normally searching for something or other, checking out ebay, or reading/commenting on someone elses blog without realising I have had the other window open for hours! So, I know it's easily done to just leave a web page open.

Secondly, I know I can re visit someone's site a number of times a day. The first thing I do when I log on, is check my e mails, then read my regular blogs, visit bebo or myspace, then go back to read a blog again because I forgot to comment, or wanted to re read something. I used to be online for 8 hours at a time....but now my health has improved I do other things as well.

So.....here's some information relating to my stalker/admirer. I have removed all other information as I don't think it's relelvant that you see who else visits the blog and where they are from....Site meter even tells me what town, and how many miles away they are from me.

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United Kingdom 18* (me)
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United Kingdom R On D 19* Minutes viewed 13.34
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United Kingdom R On D 19* Minutes viewed 3.48
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United Kingdom 18* (me)
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United Kingdom R On D 19* Minutes viewed 0
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United Kingdom R On D 19* Minutes viewed 2.07
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That top 20 is today and yesterday starting at 11.34pm UK time.

So. Seing as I'm now a Super SLeuth? Firstly I ruled out myself as it is the same internet ptovidor that I use. Secondly I checked it wasn't SIL, not the same providor, CCF again not the same providor, and Navie Wifey same providor.....but not her!

So.....who does that leave? No one that I know.

I'm probably over reacting by posting this, and I'll probably rethink it and delete it.....but it's really starting to bug me.



To get a pictorial view.....the green in the above is from this visitor. And the thing that set me off was one of the links they clicked on today.....suddenly interested in ostomy supplies?

I guess what I'm trying to say is.....I know more than you think I do, I know people have found me by searching for Nanny McPhee, and How much Whisky to put in your coke.

So, your help needed, anyone got any ideas who this might be? Or, can the actual person just please, please, please leave one comment so I know you're not an actual stalker, or even a letterbox stalker aaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh!!

Speaking of screaming, I forgot to mention. Hubby and I did our Christmas shoppin on Saturday, 2nd stop of the day was Toys R Us for certain nephews and nieces. Walked into the store and one of my worst nightmares hit me right in the face. There on the wall was an 8foot high picture of the current Dr Who shining a blue beam at you, and that was just a head and shoulder shot! Next to him, larger than life was a Cyber Man and a Dalek.....now looking at a Dalek is bad enough for me.....clinging onto hubby's jacket we wandered towards the display, (Istill say he did this on purpose to see if my fears were real). Anyway.......all of a sudden, full volume, loud and clear "EXTERMINTATE EXTERMINATE". That was it, I was off like a shot, round the corner cuddling a giant teddy bear! Hubby was in fits of laughter, and I did get a few strange looks.......I know, a 35 year old woman sh** scared of Dalek's......at least it wasn't the child catcher from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang....I'd have legged it out of the shop and 3 miles down the road if it was him.

Wuss or what!

Work today went ok. It was busy, on the phones, and I helped out in customer service a little bit again. But there was a bad vibe coming from one person. I even sat at one point and reanalysed Thursdays night out, trying to recall our conversations, which were limited, to see if I could remember saying the wrong thing...but no. I was sober....the person concerned was slightly tipsy.

The person concerned walked past me at least five or six times without acknowledgement. Boss S mentioned that everyone was going out for lunch next Thursday would I like to come. I automaticall offered to man the phones while everyone else went out, but she told me firmly I was going. The person concerned is organising this......so I guess it's up to said person whether my name gets put on the list. They did start to mention it to me.....and I heard my name mentioned a few times by them.....but nothing said to my face.

Mind you, this is the same person that during my first week had a bit of a dig. I was warned by the occupational health Dr that some people may hold a grudge. There was a conversation going on regarding people claiming benefits and being on the "dole". I was busy putting orders on so I took no notice....until the last comment that came at the end of the conversation after a slight delay, pointed in my direction. "That is if people want to work".

I've only mentioned it to hubby.....and his opinion was the same as mine. This person didn't know me before I went off sick. They didn't know, like everyone else did, that I practically worked in agony for a few weeks before admitting defeat and being taken into hospital. They didn't see me in "work mode" before I was poorly, and they certainly haven't seen, as yet, my full contribution to work and just how dedicated I can be. Maybe their opinion will change, maybe it won't. They're just lucky that they are healthy.

Ggggggrrrrr got my moaning head on tonight.

Oh, SIL I was watching a re run of Torchwood last night when you rang, I had the volume on the tv up that high in the living room that I didn't hear the phone or the answer machine....I was too busy drooling over........


John Barrowman in a tight white tee shirt. Sorry.

Speaking of JB, if you can, watch the Royal Variety Performance tonight, as he is opening and closing the show. Singing of course, and with a voice like his, a body like his, and eyes looking straight at me (Of course) through the tv screen, I shall just melt into the sofa sat next to hubby! He knows he's my "hunk of the month" as he puts it. But he also knows that I won't "buy a beefburger while I have steak at home".

So Please mr or mrs R on D person.......say hello.....even if it's just a little tiny ickle one. Just to set my paranoid freaked out brain at rest.

Hugs to all.

Whisky

xxxxxx